seeing people

Over the holidays I read Dr. Stanley’s opinion in the Wall Street Journal, A Thank-You Note Helped Me Find My Calling.

This quote about how to see people for who they are and understand their values has stuck with me.

You can tell a lot about a man by what he laughs at. So, while you’re visiting with us, judge us on what makes us jolly and learn what makes us thankful. Our gratitude reveals our values. — Michael PH Stanley, paraphrasing Hughlings Jackson